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Why I Haven't Dated In YEARS
How long has it been since your last date? A day? A week? A month? These people probably put your dry-spell to shame. They've gone without a relationship for long stretches, but for good reason. Learn more below.

Getting back in the dating game can be scary.

My secret? I haven't dated in so long that I'm afraid to start again.

So these people have decided not to.

I don't do relationships.
I haven't dated in over 2 years because I'm scared and not ready for commitment.

They don't trust that their partners won't cheat.

I hate how easy women become when I say I'm in the military. This is why I haven't dated since 2011 I just don't trust them. All these unfaithful wives and girlfriends. It's too much to deal with.

And they're worried that they've packed on the pounds.

I haven't been on a date in two years because my weight makes me insanely self conscious

They think their STIs will scare people away.

I haven't dated anyone since my ex cheated on me and gave me herpes because I'm too embarrassed and ashamed of it

Or they have literally no time for games.

I haven't dated in years because I will only date someone if they have potential to be my wife. If I was a player I would get so many girls but I don't want that. I'm patient, I'll find you.

They can't handle unreciprocated love.

I tell people that I haven't dated for so long because I'm too busy and picky, but in reality it's because I'm terrified of being rejected, tossed aside, and not loved for who I am.

Or wonder if they would be able to reciprocate someone else's feelings.

I'm too shallow with too high of standards. I haven't been on a date with anyone in 2 years because of this.

This person just can't say goodbye.

My fiance was murdered five years ago. I haven't dated since. It would feel too much like cheating.

And these people say they can't let themselves go all-in again.

Once I get into a relationship, I give my heart and soul to a person, that is why I haven't dated in over a year.
I don't get attached to people easily, but when I do, I care way too much. I guess that's why I haven't dated anyone

Some aren't the person they need to be yet.

I haven't been on a date in about 2 years. Maybe I'm still not ready for a relationship.
I haven't dated anyone in 12 years because I hate myself.

And others put their kids first.

I am a single mom. I haven't been on a date in over 2 years. My daughter will always come first but I wish someone wanted to turn our duo into a family.

They're hanging onto the past.

I haven't dated anybody in 2 years.. I still have this crazy idea that my Ex will come back around one day..

Or actually enjoy the single life.

My last breakup was so bad, I haven't dated in eight years.  I'm just happier single.  I don't think I'll ever get married.
I love being alone... There I said it... I abandoned all my friends and after my wife left me i swore off dating... I'm in heaven right now

They're still confused about where things in past relationships went wrong.

My last relationship ended because his feelings for me changed. When I asked what feelings, he couldn't tell me. The lack of explanation broke my heart and I haven't dated since.

And worry about their appearances.

People call me beautiful and gorgeous but I haven't dated since my ex decided to be gay and it ruined my self esteem.
I haven't been on a date in 2 years because I have acne


"After we came out to each other, my friend and I dated. Now we're strangers."